The rules of common decency apply across all thing that we do in the Club. Below is a list of the more specific things that you should be aware of. Violation of the rules below will lead to your exclusion from the club and event going forward
Some of us have family that could look at our phones during the day. To avoid awkward conversations we ask that you keep chats and photos “family friendly” until after 8pm.
Keep things civil. Discrimination or harassment of any kind is not acceptable and will result in banning from the group and exclusion from parties
Any one seen to stalk or follow anyone else on the group will be banned and excluded.
There should be NO DMing people from the group without asking on the group first. Once granted, permission to DM can be revoked and people should not take offence to this.
We all know that we will see photos of people in various states of undress, however when in a one on one chat be sure that people want to see photos. No unsolicited dick pics!!
A lot of us have a lot of photos of us playing with other members of the community and the wider world. Please remember that it is illegal to share these photos without the consent of all the people in the photo. Please be aware of the law here
We typically meet around 8:00pm after which the ladies will head up to the rooms to freshen up. The gents will follow up shortly after. It is not OK for men to include themselves in this initial group
Parties are generally a BYOB affair, If you're bringing alcohol, please have it in a very discreet bag. We don’t want to draw the attention of the staff. So no Supermarket Bag's for Life bags.
Everyone likes to take a drink and it is ok to have a drink to calm your nerves or to be social, but it is not ok to be drunk or badly behaved because of too much drink. You don't want to be embarassed by being asked to leave early. Also, you don't want it to effect your performance! Moderate your alcohol intake by drinking water. Enjoy the moment and don't let it pass you by!
We ask that you stay at the party until you're ready to leave, it will not be possible to keep going up and down to reception for smoking during the party.
To make sure everyone has the discretion they deserve please keep your phones in your pockets for the duration of the party. If you and you want a photo for personal use and all your play partners consent you can give your phone to one of the organizers and we'll happily take a photo for you.
Consent, Consent, Consent. Always ask before touching or initiating any physical contact. No one should take offence, we’re all here to have safe, consensual fun. No truly means NO. Playing or nudity is not an obligation to anyone, just an option.
Some people like to include others in their play. Giving or receiving consent (permission) is important in case you want to touch someone else. You cannot know what someone else wants, or even what you yourself want, without talking about consent. Therefore, always ask permission before touching someone you do not know well yet. No-one will find this strange, and neither will anyone blame you for saying 'No, thank you', 'No, not now' or simply 'No'.
Play is always safe play with plenty of condoms available. You are welcome to bring your own but we have plenty available
Looking at others is allowed of course, but do not disturb others in their play by making comments or talking loudly. Keep proper distance. If someone would like you to participate, they will make that clear to you themselves.
Bins will be provided, Please put used condoms in the bin. It might sound like common sense, but it needs saying!
These rules are constantly evolving to ensure safety and discretion for everyone in our community so please watch this space
If you have any questions about these rules please reach out to ejswingclub@gmail.com and we will happily help you out.