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Summer 2024 Newsletter
Summer 2024 Newsletter
Here Cums Summer!
Here Cums Summer!
Summer is almost upon us and things are certainly hotting up at EJ’s Club! Thanks to everyone who has made it along to each event so far this year and to friends, old and new, who are getting to know each other at each event. Our community is growing all the time and its great to meet everyone at our parties.
April saw our big 1st Birthday party and we were so grateful to everyone who came along to help us celebrate. Our second year kicked off with a bang with our May the Fourth be with you party and we kick off summer on the 18th May! We will have just one party in July and August so sign up as soon as the form is updated to grab your spot!
EJ's Club Party Nights
EJ's Club Party Nights
Upcoming Party Dates:
Saturday 18th May – Starting the Summer Together Party – Dublin
Saturday 15th June – Greedy Girls Party – Dublin
Saturday 29th June – Emma’s Birthday Party – Dublin
Saturday 13th July – Greedy Girls Bukkake Party – Dublin
Saturday 10th August – Theme TBA Party - Dublin
Make sure to fill out the booking form so we can get you on the invite list by clicking here
Contact Us
EJ’s Club
089 260 4051 / 083 4379947
ejswingclub@gmail.com
Drinking Limits
Drinking Limits
There is typically a lot of drinks and liquor at swinging parties. Similar to drugs, drinking in excessive amount hardly leads to a mind-blowing swinging session. Excessive drinking can finally end up in breaking rules inadvertently.
You should have clear cut rules on alcohol consumption levels. Most swinger folks normally drink less because nobody needs to have an alcohol-induced failure to occur when they're surrounded by hot women. Newer women in the swinging lifestyle will, in general, will have to stick to this rule as they drink away their nerves.
Be careful and watch your alcohol consumption – and watch out for one another's intake, too. You might not have any desire to return home yet, but, on the off chance that your partner has had an excessive amount to drink, you're most likely happier taking a break or leaving early.
Join our Telegram Group
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In addition all of our mailings will come from: ejswingclub@gmail.com
Our website is always being updated where you can read back on previous newsletters on www.irishfantasy.club
Below are the details of our next parties and if you wish to attend, please sign up at this link: Party Sign Up
Thank you for your support and we look forward to a swingtastic Summer!
Emma & James xx
THE PROS AND CONS OF A SWINGING CLUB
Great for:
Sexually curious or bi-curious couples, wanting to spice up their sex life without being unfaithful. If you both wish you had a ‘night pass’ to sleep with someone else just once, this is one way of having your cake and eating it too.
Exhibitionists. If you like dressing up and showing off, you’ll enjoy that part of it. It’s the one place you can turn up and dance topless or naked in front of an appreciative audience.
Good communicators: You need great communication, trust and a secure, grounded relationship to survive swinging.
City dwellers. If you live in a liberal-thinking city, you’ll have lots of choices of places to swing. The more rural your area and the more conservative the culture, the less likely you are to find like-minded people.
Improving your body image: Everyone is stripped bare and you get to see real people of various ages naked and sexually aroused. “It’s a great reality check in a virtual world of beautiful, manipulated, 2-D sexual images,” one veteran swinger told me.
Avoid if:
You’re jealous types. If the thought of sharing your partner makes you want to pick up a gun and shoot someone, best not go there. Ditto if they feel the same. You need to be able to separate sex from love and both know that having sex with others doesn’t mean you no longer love each other.
Only one of you wants to do it. It’s unfair and it’s usually a disaster. Cue nasty scenes and both of you being ejected from the club or party.
You’re having relationship problems. It’s also the worst idea you’ve ever had if your relationship is in crisis or you’re going through a rough patch. This will not fix it, it will snap it in two.
THE RULES OF SWINGING
Confirm your attendance. A lot of swinger’s clubs or parties won’t let you in otherwise. It’s common courtesy to the organisers to let them know if you’re coming. There’s a balance of guests that the organisers need to think about as well.
Ask what you need to bring. If it’s a party in someone’s house, bring a bottle. Or some nibbles. (Yes really – it’s essentially a party. People get hungry.)
Ask about the dress code. Your clothes might end up on the floor but you’re going to feel uncomfortable wearing jeans if everyone else is in head to toe designer. Or wearing nothing but expensive lingerie and heels.
Read the rules. If you’re going to an event, a club or a well-organised party, you will be sent or told the rules. Read them. Stick to them. If it’s private and small, talk about what you will and won’t do before you do anything.
Don’t bring lots of valuables. I’m not suggesting all swinger’s clubs are seedy but just as you wouldn’t leave your handbag with a wallet crammed with cash unattended in a posh nightclub, don’t do it here.
Arrive fresh. Newly showered, teeth cleaned, nice-smelling clothes. Not only is it considerate to other guests, who’s going to want to have sex with you if you don’t smell good?
Wear great lingerie. Your big old grey pants aren’t going to cut it. It’ll give you confidence as well to have flattering, gorgeous lingerie on.
Use protection. In most swinging clubs, if you don’t use a condom, you can’t participate. Do you really want to be in a club that allows unsafe sex?
Don’t arrive drunk. Not only is it unattractive, you need good judgement if it’s your first time and to be able to read the body language of your partner. Set a limit with your partner on how much each of you will drink.
Turn up on time. Not only is it polite, swinger’s parties move into different moods as the night progresses. It’s all part of the warm-up to meet people with their clothes on.
Don’t take a ‘ticket’. A ‘ticket’ is a friend or someone you aren’t involved with that you take along purely to get in (some places only allow couples). It’s lying, you’re likely to be rumbled and it’s frowned upon.
Arrive as a couple, leave as a couple. Walk in together, socialise together and leave together. Don’t just abandon each other once you’re through the front door.
Don’t worry about being nervous – everyone is their first time. Most swinger’s clubs are friendly places and everyone has a bit of a laugh along with the sex.
SWINGING HOLIDAYS
Some exciting locations to consider if you plan on going on a Swinger’s Holiday:
· PDI – Playa del Ingles - Located in Gran Canaria, the many resorts and clubs have proven very popular for Irish, British, German and Italian Swingers
· Cap d’Agde, South of France – very popular location in the summer months with its naturist village and beaches
· Swingers Cruise – There are many options such as Desire Cruises who offer cruises around the Greek islands and the French Riviera amongst other locations.
· Florida – There are many lifestyle resorts in Tampa and Miami, such as Caliente and Rooftop Resort
· Hedonism, Jamaica – The world famous resort is one for the Fuck It list for every swinger couple
· Temptation, Cancun, Mexico – Another must visit venue for swingers throughout the world!
UPCOMING PARTIES
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